TURN ON'S
Friendly, honest, loving people are the type I like to meet. People who are not take take take. Anyone who likes to help others because they want to and not for what they can get out of it. In short, I love the nice people in this world regardless of colour or religion.
TURN OFF'S
I hate people who are in love with themselves to the detriment of others. People who lie or are dishonest. People who are out to further their own needs regardless of who they hurt. I don't like smoking or people who drink irresponsibly. We all like a drink and get a bit merry sometimes but serial drunks are a big turn off. I will not entertain any form of drug taking. If your life is so bad that you think you need drugs to escape it then you need help not drugs. Religion is a big turn off for me as I do not believe in it and certainly do not like it forced down my neck. I have no problem with people who believe though and if they benefit from it then good luck to them. My other dislikes are tattoo's and facial jewellery. Why anybody would want to deface themselves and ensure they are as unappealing to others as is possible is completely beyond me.
ABOUT ME
I live with my 18 year old daughter having got divorced amicably in August 2007. Very happy with that setup and am not looking for another partner or interested in another relationship as I am with the girl I love the most.
Although we are the most advanced creatures on the planet, our purpose is the same as all of the other animals and that is to reproduce. Having had a child our aim is to help them as much as we can through life. I have never been financially rich but I have always been emotionally rich and I believe I have done everything I can to help my daughter through the path of life. She will always be two steps up the ladder to the rich parents who replace love with gifts. She has always had love from me and knows that she will always have it.
I was married for nearly 18 years and have been through love and out of love. I know what I prefer but I have decided that I will never allow myself to become that close to a woman again as the mental scars will never heal. I do have many lady friends but have been celibate for many years as I felt sex caused more problems than it was worth although I have never been promiscuous.
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Spiritspark wrote at September 17, 2009
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Heaveno! John,
<If someone could take the word "hell" and add an "o" for a greeting, I could do the same with heaven!!  Blessings for the add! 
Until I find another quote or excerpt that deeply resonates in my spirit I will be using this perfectly appropos favorite thought,as a comment for all my friends, an  excerpt from Daniel C. Matt's "Essential Kabbalah" <bracketed words are my addition>:


"There is one who sings the song of his<her> soul,discovering in his<her> soul everything--utter spiritual fulfillment.There is one who sings the song of his people. Emerging from the private circle of his<her> soul--not expansive enough, not yet tranquil--he<she> strives for fierce heights, clinging to the entire community of Israel <Ireland, India, Arabia, United States, et cetera> in tender love. Together with her, he<she> sings her song, feels her anguish, delights in her hopes. He<She> conceives profound insights into her past and her future, deftly probing the inwardness of her spirit with the wisdom of love.Then there is one whose soul expands until it extends beyond the border of Israel<Germany, Japan, China, Scotland, et cetera> singing the song of humanity. In the glory of the entire human race, in the glory of the human form, his<her> spirit spreads, aspiring to the goal of human kind, envisioning its consummation. From this spring of life, he<she> draws all his<her> deepest reflections, his<her> searching, striving,and vision. Then there is one who expands even further until he<she> unites with all of existence, with all creatures, with all worlds, singing a song with them all.There is one who ascends with all these songs in unison-the song of the soul, the song of the nation, the song of humanity, the song of the cosmos-- resounding together , blending in harmony, circulating the sap of life, the sound of holy joy."


Blessings of illumination, joy, laughter, life, light, love, peace, revelation, transformation, truth, understanding and wisdom, Zarayah

Spiritspark
Stardust wrote at May 9, 2009
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Hi John... 
It's me! That's it - just me.
Stopping by with a friendly hello,
love sparkles
and a great big smile.

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Wishing a wonderful day.
Hugs and blessings,<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>


Yvonne<o:p></o:p>

Stardust
Stardust wrote at April 29, 2009
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Hi there John... 
MyHotComments.com 
 
 Touched with magic, miracles and laughter…<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>


Love, blessings, smiles and bear hugs,<o:p></o:p>


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Stardust
Stardust wrote at March 9, 2009
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John....
Today, and every day ...

May you be filled with light, love, joy and gratitude!

May you remember that each person makes a difference ...
... and
YOU are one of them!<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>


   With love and blessings….<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1TongueersonName><?xml:namespace prefix = u1 /><u1TongueersonName>Yvonne</st1TongueersonName></u1TongueersonName> <o:p></o:p>

Stardust
lagresto wrote at February 2, 2009
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John,


Hi, this is Larry Agresto from Boston.


Nice to meet you! Thank you for accepting me as a friend.


As a Life & Business Coach, I would like to share one of my e-books with you entitled The Principles of Success. I hope you enjoy it.


www.larryagresto.com/The_Principles_of_Success.pdf




Think Magic!

lagresto
Bernadette C Morgan Bsc wrote at January 25, 2009
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Hi John

Good to meet and connect with you.  I look forward to learning more about you.

Love and Light

Bernie

Bernadette C Morgan Bsc
Stardust wrote at January 15, 2009
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John……<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>


Some people pass though this world
and leave it just as they found it.
Yet people like you,
take the time to do special things
that make the world more beautiful.
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You’re AWESOME!!!<o:p></o:p>


Many blessings to you….<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1TongueersonName>Yvonne</st1TongueersonName>


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Stardust
crystalhealer1 wrote at January 14, 2009
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John,


Please allow me to invite you to take my recent polls.  I would greatly appreciate any help that you could provide.  Just click on "Polls" in the blue bar along the top of the page. Thank you so much for your assistance.  Many blessings,




Ashley




http://www.freewebs.com/crystalhealer1




http://www.mimosaspirit.com

crystalhealer1
BlondeRootsProd wrote at December 22, 2008
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John,

Wishing you Peace ~ Love ~ Prosperity and Joy in the New Year.

 Happy Holidays! <img src="file/smile/emo/001_rolleyes.gif" mce_src="http://jasonsnetwork.com/file/smile/emo/001_rolleyes.gif" alt="">

 Chandra,

 GodBlessHumanity.com

BlondeRootsProd
MahavatarBabaji wrote at October 19, 2008
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