The "trash" I speak of is:
- Pain of past relationships
- Old, worn out beliefs about whether you are relationship material
- Unfair criteria for your "perfect" mate
- Other people's idea of what you should desire in a mate
- The subconscious belief that you are too _______________ (you fill in the blank for a relationship (too old, too fat, too broke, too scare, too whatever)
All of this represents "trash" and if you do desire a wonderful relationship, you must empty your mind of this garbage. Whatever you are in mind (your constant thoughts), emotions (calm or helter-skelter) and spirt (hurt, upset, peaceful) is what you will attract in a mate.
Doesn't it make sense to 'empty out' before you 'invite (someone) in'?
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