‘One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman’s emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax.’<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p>
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I have yet to meet the woman who doesn’t want to be with a partner whose strength she can trust and rely on. In treasured moments of intimacy, she wants to surrender to his muscular power. In the words of Deida, ‘you need to feel your man’s trustable presence before you will open your heart and body without guard. It’s a step-by-step process of learning. He learns to be more present; you learn to be more open.’ <o:p></o:p>
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When a woman is able to trust her man, fear dissolves, which enables her to open herself and give herself to him fully. As much fun as it can be to sometimes reverse male and female roles during love play, surrender to a dominant man feels absolutely sensational. For a woman, surrender means love without limits… to relinquish control; to relax her guard long enough to be vulnerable and then transcend that vulnerability with an open heart and an open body. In this sense, surrender is the entrance to unsurpassed passion. <o:p></o:p>
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So what do women really want? For their femininity to be valued. To be loved completely – as much out of the bedroom as within. <o:p></o:p>
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When a man is unable to take the lead in love, a woman withdraws her trust, takes control and does her best to lead herself. <o:p></o:p>
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Have I found a man whose strength I trust implicitly?<o:p></o:p>
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No. But I haven’t lost hope that he exists.
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Angela, I'm so happy this has resonated with you!
Mia ![]()
Bless You, Mia. Outstanding post and quotation...
Hey Mia!! Bless your heart for being such an inspiration. Amazing how we teach what we need to learn the most huh? lol Much love, Jason
