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A man of many parts

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63 years old
Ronda
Spain
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JOB: Self employed
SMOKE: No
RELIGION: Other
DATING STATUS: In love
BODY TYPE: Average
MEMBER SINCE: 02/23/2008
STAR SIGN: Gemini
LAST LOGIN: 11/11/2008 15:18:39
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Walking, playing guitar, riding my horse, reading, my dog, building and renovating our house.

We have no cinema nearby but when I do get the chance I love independent films of all types.

Well I have already been there, blues, flamenco, English folk, all sorts. I like to try everything that comes along.

Books about physics, spirituality, body work, mind work. Stories about relationships.

09/30/2008 11:30:13
09/07/2008 13:42:35
02/24/2008 16:44:52
02/23/2008 03:03:06


The Funny Farm, ART - Painting, 21st Century Poetry, Continuous Affirmations, Life Transitions







Sunrise, sunset, mountains, flamenco dancing and flamenco guitar, blues guitar, guitars in general, beautiful people, dancing, working with groups, psychodrama

People who won't listen, people who are closed, racists, If I have to think about it for too long then maybe I'm more tolerant than I thought.

The best description I can give for myself comes from My mother-in-law who calls me "a man of many parts." My own life experiences have taught me the value of creativity in manifesting positive change. When the going gets tough if you find that creative centre then positive change will find its way into your life.

My work experience began when I left school at sixteen as a mediocre student to work as a clerk in an insurance office. This was followed by some years working in various firms mainly on statistics and costings. I was always good at maths. One day whilst sat in my office under artificial lighting in the middle of a factory, I decided that I didn't want to work in an office any longer. In the local paper I saw a job advertised for a trainee forester, I thought why not? I was coming up to the age of thirty at this point. For the next twelve years or so I worked and trained in forestry. I qualified and became a lecturer at an agricultural college and I developed my own timber and wood craft company. I had a career. At this point it is important, for the change that comes next, to point out that at school I was apparently not good at physical exercise or music or art in any way.

I was now in my third major relationship having been divorced twice (I am a slow learner). My partner was interested in theatre and I was encouraged to become involved as well. No way was I going to act so I helped out with back stage and stage management. This didn't last long. I became entranced with theatre started to take acting roles and it took over my life. There is a long story here but the short version is that I got involved with a community play in the town where I lived and became totally hooked on the whole creative process. Through the skills of the director doors were opened to me that I never even knew existed so when I was given the opportunity to train as a community artist I jumped at the chance. My life was to change once again.

At 40 years of age I found I was able to do cartwheels. I learnt to juggle, unicycle, walk the slack rope and became involved in physical theatre, performing on stilts, and playing the flute. I studied creative dance and worked in schools and community centres teaching circus skills, theatre and dance. I fell in love with physical theatre and the whole creative process. I toured Spain with my own theatre company, performing and running workshops. Over the next fourteen years I developed my own workshop skills enabling others to find their own creative selves.

I became very aware of the changes that these activities brought about in children and adults. I noticed an increase in self confidence, how the process developed a greater motivation and a stronger sense of self. Children performed better at school, management teams were more effective, individual found success and satisfaction in their lives and their relationships. This realisation prompted me to take up the study of psychodrama, a group method of using creativity and spontaneity for therapeutic purposes.
Now as a fully qualified psychodrama psychotherapist I work with my artist wife Nicky at our creative and therapeutic centre in the small village of Alpandeire near Ronda, Spain www.casadellanete.com to facilitate others to use creative ways to bring positive change to their lives.
If you want to know more check out http://www.casadellanete.com and http://www.squidoo.com/genalvalley




Displaying 49 out of 49 comments
From: colorcards
10/29/2008 13:08:27

Hi Phi,

What a wonderful story of self discovery.

It took me many years to finally do what I love the most.  I facilitate change in myself and others by working with complementary colors.  This process connects us to the practical and intuitive parts of us.  It reminds us that we are not just ego (human), but we are also spirit (being).  I find that this process brings people home inside themselves, to their many abilities and capabiities and to their true purpose in life.  It's very satisfying work.

Many blessings in your work,

Arlene



From: AmyBushBradley
10/28/2008 10:32:14

Thank you for connecting with me, Phil :o)  I have enjoyed your story and the beauty life has brought you (or vice versa...).

Take Care,
Amy

Be Your True Self Now
Transformational Parenting



From: KenJensen
10/19/2008 13:20:48

Hi Phil!



Your story mirrors the important parts of mine. I've had two wives. I've had 30 jobs and no satisfaction in any of them but one, and the reasons I found satisfaction were negative in principle. This one job allowed me to explore the darkest parts of myself and run with them. Exciting and even had a positive effect on those I worked with and for, but turned me into something I didn't want to be. I was a very scary person if you were my target. No way to go through life, I found.



So jobs were never the answer. I learned slowly as well LOL



Now that I am an author, speaker, and conselor, mostly to bipolar people and their families, I have found joy. It's as you have found. Some of us NEED to create or we're just not gonna make it. Or at the lvery least, we'll lead a mediocre life, relatively comfortable, but never satisfied. Never realizing our full potential. A soft crime in itself.



The other major plus to what I do is routinely meeting folks like you. Regardless of how unhappy I was at all my jobs, I was usually the most interesting person, the life force of the company, office, or workteam. I was also the most annoying to some because I could never stop taliking about my desire to become more, to do more. To matter. I was usually very alone in these thoughts and wished someone saw things the way I did. Most coworkers thought I should be happy with a good job. I know better now why they said that but, yecchhh!



I got the chance to travel extensively in the Marines and for a number of years after, I did the same. Then bipolar took up almost ten years of my life but it's also produced my new career. I'm 40 now and I finally look forward to every day!



I very much hope to meet you in person one day, on your soil. I have to see Spain. I'm heading over to your website now to learn more about you.



Be well,



Ken Jensen
The Bipolar Eradicator
www.ItTakesGutsToBeMe.com



From: Fr_Tim
10/11/2008 12:11:32

Phil,


Many thanks for the invite to your cirlce of friends, and I warmly welcome you into mine.


"Success is the art of being who you already are."


peace,


Fr_Tim, creator


Be Not Afraid International


www.benotafraidintl.org



From: ToddB
10/10/2008 12:55:38

Hello Phil,


Thank you for the wonderful comments on my page.  She is our little Angel, a true blessing that we cherish every day.  She is loved.


Thank you for being a friend.


Todd



From: smilingallie
10/01/2008 08:41:45

Thanks for adding me to your list of friends.


Have a wondeerful day!!



From: docrenk
09/27/2008 18:12:01

...wow, what a life...!!!  Congratulations and enjoy your great art of living...xo, r.



From: Alan
09/27/2008 06:46:28

Phil: You are truly a treasured gift, not just to me but by all...Thank you for all that you are and all that you do for others. The kids in the states say they just wanta be like Mike..Well I just wanta be like you...

Sincerely

AL

The Disease Bounty Hunter



From: Donaldwealthormoney
09/26/2008 23:42:52

Philburgess,


Very nice to have someone who can teach other in so many different areas.


Donaldwealthormoney



From: Spiritspark
09/26/2008 12:49:10

Heaveno Phil,
[ If someone could take the word "hell" and add an "o" for a greeting, I could do the same with heaven!!] Blessings for the invitation to add you as my friend.  Below a favorite excerpt from Daniel C. Matt's "Essential Kabbalah":

"There is one who sings the song of his[her] soul,discovering in his[her] soul everything--utter spiritual fulfillment.There is one who sings the song of his people. Emerging from the private circle of his soul--not expansive enough, not yet tranquil--he[she] strives for fierce heights, clinging to the entire community of Israel [Ireland, India, Arabia, United States, et cetera] in tender love. Together with her, he[she] sings her song, feels her anguish, delights in her hopes. He[She] conceives profound insights into her past and her future, deftly probing the inwardness of her spirit with the wisdom of love.Then there is one whose soul expands until it extends beyond the border of Israel[Germany, Japan, China, Scotland, et cetera] singing the song of humanity. In the glory of the entire human race, in the glory of the human form, his[her] spirit spreads, aspiring to the goal of human kind, envisioning its consummation. From this spring of life, he[she] draws all his[her] deepest reflections, his[her] searching, striving,and vision. Then there is one who expands even further until he[she] unites with all of existence, with all creatures, with all worlds, singing a song with them all.There is one who ascends with all these songs in unison-the song of the soul, the song of the nation, the song of humanity, the song of the cosmos-- resounding together , blending in harmony, circulating the sap of life, the sound of holy joy."

Blessings of joy, laughter, life, light, love, peace, revelation, truth, understanding and wisdom, Zarayah [aka "Spiritspark"]



From: Becky
09/26/2008 10:33:30

I love hugs!!  and open discussion!  What a fabulous beginning to a great friendship, Phil. 

I'm definitely interested in your self discovery guides ... they sound much like what my In Touch work is all about.  Finding connections to promote my books and other's works at the same time is one of my favorite things.  There are so many wonderful ways to live life, I want my finger tips to touch on as many as possible ...

Send me your thoughts,

Becky



Philburgess wrote:





Becky wrote:



Hello Phil,

My fellow horse lover and new friend, thanks for the invite. You have lead an amazing life that's for certain. Just think what else it's going to send you! Wow!

If you're ever looking for a new take on self improvement books, greeting cards, or getting in touch through the world of horses ... or not, since you already are in touch with horses ... lol ... look my way.

all my best,
Becky

ThinkItOut.net






Thanks for your comment. I checked out your site and found it welcoming, warm and inviting. I resonate with the themes in your books and I'm pleased to see they are reasonably priced, unlike some products one finds on the internet. I'd love to read some of them so I'm thinking of making a purchase.

I am in the early stages of taking my work from being face to face to offering self discovery guides over the internet. When I have done more work on these I would like to come back to you for your comments. I have a feeling that our work may well be complimentary. Would you be open to further discussion?

I feel a hug is appropriate here!

Phil



From: joyologist
09/26/2008 06:12:33

i honouryou for your journry...thankyou for saying helloa nd invting me to be in communication,,,it will be my pleasure....Pat



From: Filmtopia
09/26/2008 05:47:35

Hi Phil, lovely to meet you and thanks for the request!

Blessings, Jen x



From: Judith
09/26/2008 05:42:51

Hi Phil'


Thanks for the invite


lol


Judith



From: Arne
09/26/2008 04:40:46

Hi Phil,


happy to be connected, my friend, and thank you! Looks like you have found yourself a nice spot to live... would love to taste one of your great lunches! :-)


Love & smiles from Australia,
Arne
The-Happy-Side.com



From: Becky
09/25/2008 21:27:47

Hello Phil, 

My fellow horse lover and new friend, thanks for the invite. You have lead an amazing life that's for certain.  Just think what else it's going to send you! Wow!

If you're ever looking for a new take on self improvement books, greeting cards, or getting in touch through the world of horses ... or not, since you already are in touch with horses ... lol ... look my way.

all my best,
Becky

ThinkItOut.net



From: KameyHawk
09/25/2008 17:14:22

Hi Philburgess,


It's nice to E-meet you!




From: georginemonroe
09/25/2008 10:51:24

Thanks for the request, its very nice to meet you!



From: michael
09/25/2008 07:20:09

Thank you my friend for the compliment on my art! Hope you have a Great Thursday!


Michael

The Holy G-rail



From: nita
09/24/2008 21:23:53

Hello Phil


Thank you for the add. Spain is beautiful as is Portugal.


Nita



From: Imelda
09/24/2008 15:57:52

Thanks for the invite, Phil.

I used to do some admin work for a forestry consultant - and managed two planting projects! Seems like another lifetime now! House-building/renovation, horses, walking, mind/body/spirit....seems we have quite a bit in common.



From: EbnyEyz
09/24/2008 14:51:29

Hi Phil and thanks for the friend request!! It's nice to meet you. ~ Lucy



From: Rose
09/24/2008 12:42:06

Hola Phil!  Thanks for the add. Good luck on your ventrues...you certainly are a modern Renaissance Man!   Rose



From: montyvalentino
09/24/2008 12:32:44

thanks for the add.


*



From: GoddessintheGroove
09/24/2008 11:09:56

Flamenco, one of my favorites!! :)

Thanks for the invitation!



From: DavidBeard
09/24/2008 10:06:00

All my very best wishes Phil.
Wishing you continued success in all that you do.
David Beard - UK
Film Music Composer



From: henner
09/24/2008 09:40:13

Hola Phil


thanks for inviting me to your circle of friends; I am honored. You are just a few corners away from where I live and work in Marbella. It was quite a surprise for me to find somebody in my vicinity. I am sure that sooner or later we will meet in person. I look forward to it.


Udo



From: zen17
09/24/2008 08:45:22

Hey Phil,


Thanks very much for connecting, I think you might find Zen Yoga in alignment with your body, mind spirit studies. please let me know if you have any interest.


wishing you much peace,
Aaron


 






From: michael
09/24/2008 07:47:54

Start the week dancing with the "G" Released TheHolyG-rail.com


Thanks for the add request my friend! It's all about the "G" :)


Michael

The Holy G-rail



From: godisaverb
09/24/2008 07:31:02

Thanks for being my friend.  My son visited Spain a couple of years ago, and he often speaks of how beautiful it is.  Maybe I will be able to see for myself, one day.  I look forward to sharing with you!


I AM...Jodi
www.godisaverb.com



From: SelfEsteem
09/24/2008 06:39:07

Thanks for the invite!


All the best...


Jill



From: Debi
09/24/2008 06:26:43

Thanks for connecting!



From: Alan
09/07/2008 14:14:13

Phil: You have returned once again my friend...Good to see you here with us...

Sincerely

AL



From: TheLastResortPa
09/07/2008 11:58:33

Hi Philip, I look forward to hearing about you and your methads.  My email is daniel@thelastresortpa.com


Dan :)



Philburgess wrote:

Hi David, I have sent you a friends request. I am interested in the power of creativity and body, mind, spirit work. I am looking to share ideas and experiences in self discovery and self healing.

Have a great day.

Phil



From: mermaid
09/06/2008 10:31:23

Hi Phil,


Thank you for your offer of friendship. I will be very happy to learn more about your work and share  and develop new thinking with you 


Mermaid x




From: Leyla
09/04/2008 02:21:27

Thank you Phil. Have a beautiful and blessed day also.


Love, Light, Peace, and Oneness,


Leyla
www.leylahur.com


 



Philburgess wrote:


Thanks for inviting me. I would love to be friends. Have a sun filled day.




From: MarleneM
08/10/2008 19:53:08

I have a 13 free workshops going on right now...If you want to just jump in and start learning here is a link to one of them:


http://www.powerfulintentions.org/group/advancedefthealingbeginsnow



From: MarleneM
08/09/2008 15:14:51

I am still new here, testing my legs so to speak. I would be honored if you will add me as your friend.


 


I am an Advanced EFT Practitioner I work out of the box using Intuition, Angels and Meditation and the Power of Intention combined with EFT to great success, to help heal and transform lives. A place where even the Healer comes to get Healed, it's always harder to heal yourself.


 


Hugs


Marlene Marion


www.MarleneMarionsEFT.com



From: Alan
07/27/2008 11:36:42
How Important are you? I know that my
life and heart are much brighter now
having known you...

Sincerely AL

The Disease Bounty Hunter.


From: RollingRiver
07/08/2008 11:25:08
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Hello Phil...
Hope you're finding your experience here at Jason's a good one! Thanks for coming into my circle. Stop by anytime!


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Live Clean * Think Clean * Move Clean
Life/EFT/Energy Psychology Coach
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330-881-5506
Rebounding for Life

The Rolling River


From: Alan
07/07/2008 12:31:40

Phil...Don't forget to came back dear Friend...

AL